Of Vices & Virtues
Many a time, we identify with a
person not through their virtues but through their vices. Strange as it sounds,
it’s true.
A vice is akin to that unexpected
dash of spice that comes along in an otherwise bland dish. This vice brings in
an interest quotient.
I am not glorifying the vices .Nor
am I advocating the pop culture slogan of Good guys finish last. All I am
saying is that it is ok to have some vices. It makes one appear more humane. It
helps people relate to you.
There is this risk of being taken
for granted if you are an eternal goody two shoes. People always expect you to be
good natured and they get offended even if you are having a bad day! .
Even acknowledging your vices gets
people to accept you for who you are. Let them know that you are aware of your
misgivings and you are trying to overcome it. This will help others empathise
with you.
However, it is important that
whatever vices you have, you try and pick up some virtues so that people don’t find you repulsive. It is important that we find the right balance.
Arun Babu.
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