Blog # 363 - Why is Bollywood making Ramayana movie now?

Why is Bollywood making Ramayana Movie now? 

 

Indian movie industry or Bollywood, as it is popularly known has finally decided to make 'Ramayana' as a full fledged big budget movie. Bollywood has existed for more than 100 years now. Yet, the industry did not make a single movie at this scale on Ramayana or Mahabharata. 

For the uninitiated, Ramayana and Mahabharata are both divine epics of India which the Hindu population repect and believe in. They are also the history of the 5000 years old ancient Indian civilization referred to as Bharath.

There are many reasons why Bollywood decided to make a movie on Ramayana now. Here are a few I can think of:

1. Ramayana has become 'cool' - Business of movies depend on how much people like the subject of a movie. India is at a point in time where the youngsters and old alike have come to think of Hindu beliefs and scriptures to be cool.

2. Hindusim has started demanding respect - When I was growing up or in the early 1990s, Hindu people hesitated to own their religion or wear it on their sleaves. Up until 5 years back, it was quite common for movies to make fun of Hindu Gods. During Hindu festivals, there will be routine ads advising Hindus how to celebrate their festivals. This was not done during any other religion's festivals. 

3. Indians have started owning their culture - Long after Independence in 1947, Indians hesitated to embrace their own culture. Speaking English with a clipped accent and looking down on Indian traditions was considered fashionable. Well, not anymore. Indians at home and abroad are quite proud of what this young country and ancient civilization has achieved in a relatively short time.

4. Regional movie industries paved the way - 'Kaantara', the Kannada movie was the first one to dive deep in to Hindu mythology and make it a pan Indian success. This was followed by 'Hanuman Ansh' which became a blockbuster too. This should have given Bollywood some courage. 

5. The Durandhar effect - This mega blockbuster of a movie about Indian Intelligence, Government and more broke the long held myth that Indian success somehow needs to apologetic. Many spy movies that came before tried really hard to show that the neighbouring country was somehow filled with good spies. This had the bizzare reasoning that showing them in poor light may somehow upset some people in India. Durandhar movie completely dismantled that thought and told Indians to Be Proud and go all out in expressing the love and admiration for our country. 

Ramayana is poised to have a part 2. I feel Bollywood will soon make Mahabharata and many more Indian epics. 

As the youngsters would say, Bharath and its people has truly arrived.

Blog # 362 - How to find a job in India?

 How to find a job in India? 

                            In this job market, it has become incredibly difficult to find a job. Some of my friends who are true blue professionals par excellence are impacted by the ongoing job market challenges. 

So, here is my humble attempt to put together some tips from a Recruiter's perspective. (Yours Truly was a Recruiter until recently and continues to be one in some ways). 

People with more than 15 years of experience: For leaders like you, Channels 1 and 2 mentioned below works best. Channel 3 also may work. But it is a distant 3rd. 

People with 10 - 15 years of experience: For mid level professionals like you, Channel 3 might be the most effective. Channel 2 can also be helpful. 

People with less than 10 years of experience: You are at that sweet spot in your career where Channels 2 and 3 work really well. However, a word of caution - please do not shift jobs too frequently. That might become a challenge for you down the lane. May be, stick to a job for at least 3 years.  

Channel 1 - Executive Search Firms (Head Hunters) - If you are at a CXO level or above a certain salary bracket, this approach can work well. Below given are the top 10 executive search firms in India. Kindly take below 4 actions: 

1. Please go to their website, and upload your CV there. 

2. Find out the leaders of these firms, add them on LinkedIn.

3. Find out the Recruiters working at these firms, add them on LinkedIn. 

4. Reach out to the leaders and recruiters at these firms over 'Direct Message' on LinkedIn.

Top 10 Executive Search Firms: 

• Heidrick & Struggles
• Egon Zehnder
• Spencer Stuart
• ABC Consultants
• Korn Ferry
• Michael Page
• EMA Partners India
• Accord India
• Stanton Chase 
• Russell Reynolds Associates

Channel 2 - Referrals - Many a time, referrals fail to take off because of how you ask for it. Most people reach out to a friend and ask them to refer. Key details are missing here. What are your areas of expertise? What are you looking for? What job are you interested in?  

What works best is this approach : 

1. Go through the careers site of that organization. Find a job that interests you. Note down the job title and job id (usually an alpha numeric code provided along with the job ad) for which you want to be referred. 

2. Ask for this person's work email id. Send them your CV with a brief cover letter in the body of the mail. Please make sure the cover letter includes the kind of roles you are open to and your recent achievements. Include the job title and job id in the body of the mail. Request for a referral. This makes it way easier for your friend to refer you. 

Channel 3 - Job Boards - There are many job boards that are popular. It is important that you create your profile on all of them so that your profile becomes visible to a larger group of Recruiters. Some of the popular jobs boards are mentioned below:

1. Naukri 

2. IIM Jobs 

3. Hirist

4. Indeed

5. Times Jobs 

6. InstaHyre 

Channel 4 - LinkedIn - This platform is a bit of a long game. It works best if you invest some time and effort every week to network, and build your brand. Although it requires time and effort, it is an important platform. So, do not ignore this one. Think of it as a long term investment. Be patient and keep investing. And one day, it starts paying handsome returns. 

Remember - You are an excellent, hardworking, valuable professional. You will find a job very soon. Hang in there. 

Sincerely, 

Your Recruiter. 

    

Blog # 361 - Friendship at Work

Friendship at Work 

One of my cherished friends got impacted by a redundancy recently. This is a letter to him.

Dear BR, 

         It is hard to make friends as we grow

older. It is harder still to make friends at work. But you made it seem so easy. People could connect with you effortlessly. You knew how to bring people together. May be it is lessons from your Footballer days or it is just who you are - a spirited wonderful person.

         In the early days, when we became friends, I was wondering why I was dropping the 'corporate' walls around me and was genuinely connecting with you. Then I realized it was your gift. You helped everyone connect with you effortlessly. 

         Your initiative will be sorely missed. You went after projects, genuinely wanting to do better work. No one asked you to do it. It was just your thinking mind and professional spirit pushing yourself and the team towards something larger and better.

          You exude self assuredness and confidence in a way very few people can. That energy made people comfortable around you. They rallied around when you led a project.

          Your kindness shone through in every interaction you had. Every time you asked me how I was doing, I knew you meant it. 

          Now, I know that we are not going to be strangers. We will continue to ping and call and stay in touch. It surprises me how much of a cherished friendship we share without having met even once. We should change that - either at Sweet home Alabama or in Kerala, India. 

           Please continue to Run, have Tea and keep up your pretentious European ways (please look at the pic attached here) with that Baritone of yours. 

           With your intelligence, ability, spirit and energy, you will land a role very soon. It is just a matter of time.

Give my love to your mom and Mrs. BR. 

Much Love, 

Arun.

Blog # 360 - Dear Dulquer Salman, Don’t you dare

Dear Dulquer Salman, Don't you dare 

Malayalam cinema audiences received a gift for Onam - “Lokah”. What a novel idea of ​​a movie. It could be used to showcase the dictum, 'Simplicity is Sophistication'. 

The brilliant director, Dominic Arun has made the movie so deftly without unnecessary paraphernalia. Whoever has grown up in Kerala would feel a sense of nostalgia mixed with the happiness of childhood when one realizes who the character Chandra played so wonderfully by Kalyani Priyadarshan really is. Much kudos to Naslen, Chandu and Arun for playing their characters so well. Special appreciation to Tovino for doing the delightful cameo and elevating the film. 

But, coming to the title of this blog. Dulquer Salman is the producer of this movie. It is great given the fact that it is a great story and has the potential to open up a Kerala or may be South Indian superhero universe. What is the problem then, you ask? The problem is that DQ is not doing enough Malayalam movies. 

Even in 2025, it is 'Kantha' - a Telugu movie that is coming up for release. There is a Tamil movie also lined up. 

I'm 2024, he had a super hit movie in the form of 'Lucky Bhaskar' in Telugu and Tamil. But I hope DQ's team realizes that the Malayalee audience is not happy enough with a dubbed version. We need original Malayalam movies which emanates the fragrance of freshly baked puttu and kadala curry. 

Now, has he experimented with different kinds of movies? Yes. Has he tried his luck with different formats (OTT and such)? Yes. Has he made Malayalees proud along with Fafa? Yes. 

But, we the audience expect more. More so when he is the son of actor, Shri. Mammooty with such a brilliant repertoire of movies. 

So dear DQ, don't you dare be just a producer. Don't you dare be philandering across the Walayar borders. Please do consider doing one Malayalam movie in a year. 

And also, someone please tell him my Instagram id is Roamdworld :) 

He are my earlier blogs on Dulquer’s filmography - 

https://praisesnbrickbats.blogspot.com/2018/05/blog-on-dulquer-salmans-filmography-7.html

Arun Babu 

Blog # 359 - Day of an average Malayalee - Param Sundari

Day of an average Malayalee - Param Sundari version 

If you have not yet watched the cinematic brilliance that is Param Sundari, you have not missed much. However, it is a great example of a minimalist approach towards research. Saying it is minimalist is me being kind. 

To be honest, research is absolutely absent. Below is how the day of an average Malayalee in Kerala pans out, as per this movie.

 

The Malayalee wakes up to the alarm of  “Chundari mandiri vandikko” from Dil Se movie. Women run to wear the jasmine flower before even their husbands see them. Men ofcourse wear the white kasavu mundu and climb the coconut tree to pluck coconuts. 

Kerala ranks high on women empowerment. So if men are not available, women climb the coconut tree. Then, while the women make Puttu for breakfast, the man of the house takes the pet elephant in the family for a walk. 

After morning walk with elephant, men pour drums of coconut oil on themselves. 

Women go to work wearing red saree (with jasmine flower ofcourse). Once they reach office, they say their full name along with family name and cast name. Mostly they will be Make up-itta or Thekka-Petta. Name will also have some Pillai or Nair or generic last name too. 

Kerala people do not say one paragraph without using the work “Thenga”. 

After coming back from office, the neighbours get together for a mandatory Kathakali session. In rainy season, they bring the boats out to conduct a Vallam kali. 

On weekends, it is Kalari payattu instead of morning walks and workout. Babies as young as 2 years old are thrown in to the Kalari. 

Have they missed any stereotypes? Please let the Parma Sundari team know. 

Much love, 

Malayalee - A person from Kerala

Malayalam - The language of Kerala 

Kerala - One of the five South Indian states

Blog # 357 ~ Hidden clues from Jaguar

Hidden clues in Jaguar Type 00 Car 

Unless you are living under a rock, you would have seen the new Jaguar advertisement and the Type 00 car that followed it. 

To my mind, it feels like a very public, masterclass in corporate decision making, marketing, branding and advertising - alas for all the wrong reasons.   

In most well done ads or products, there will be many subtle details which are a joy to discover. They add to the history, legacy and the love that customers have for that brand or product. 

In the new Jaguar design too, there are many hidden clues. Wonder what? Read on. To begin with, the absence of a rear windshield. This signifies how a glorious history of about 90 years was completely abandoned while designing this car. In the haste to look forward, they forgot to look in to their own loved, admired past. In this case, they literally missed the rear windshield.

Lack of ground clearance - it is said, when you are too close to something , you lose the ability to see it objectively. This car is too close to the ground that they completely missed the ground reality and what their customers want. 

Name of the design (Type 00) - Great intuition at work here. I think it points towards the number of cars they aim to sell with this design. 

Break lights that look like an air conditioner - They were obsessed with the line, “Copy Nothing.” Well, they succeeded. They did not copy or get inspired from any of their iconic past cars. They went ahead and copied an air conditioner though. 

Why am invested in this? As a boy, I remember seeing a Jaguar for the first time and wondering how can a Car be so stunningly beautiful. It exuded power and beauty at once. When it moved, it seemed like poetry in motion. So, seeing this new design devoid of any beauty or imagination at all is painful. Hope they turn this around literally and figuratively.

Blog # 356 ~ Of Vikrant Massey & Sabarmati Report

 

 Dear Vikrant Massey, Thank you for this Interview 

I have always thought of Vikrant Massey to be an incredibly talented artist and actor. But, this blog is not about that. This blog is about his courage and intelligence.  

To begin with, he chose to act in a movie called 'Sabarmati Report', which goes completely against a thoroughly established narrative. But, this blog is not about that movie too :). It is about Vikrant - the person, and what we can learn from him. 

I happened to watch his interview with Faye D'souza on YouTube. What a delight of an interview - both for the intelligent questions and for the brilliant answers. Here are a few that stood out for me. 

What I really loved Vikrant was that he is a very self assured, self aware, courageous person who expresses his thoughts without any inhibitions, yet in a humble manner. 

Faye asks Vikrant if he loses sleep over climate change concerns. It is quite fashionable to say that climate change is a deep cause of worry, as it feeds in to the popular narrative. But, Vikrant said that he is deeply aware of the climate change challenges, however, it doesn't keep him awake at night. It doesn't occupy his mind space so much, knowing how little he can do about it. 

That is exactly how vast majority of the country feels, and thank you for saying that. 

At another point during the interview, the debate between Socialism and Capitalism comes up. He was brave enough to bring up how Socialism has failed in many nations. More often than not, artists or anyone who is rich speaks in favor of Socialism, as that is the acceptable thing to say. 

But, I feel any hardworking individual will not find Socialism to be a great philosophy which will benefit a society. Capitalism, with its flaws, works. It creates employment and favors those who are willing to work hard. 

There is the question about choosing to do the movie, 'Sabarmati Report' as well. Vikrant answered it brilliantly - touching up on points like the need to bring out the plight of people who suffered in the Sabarmati express burning, how that story has never been told and all the documentaries focusing on Godhra riots alone, how non - English speaking journalists aren't recognized enough and so on. 

Let us accept it - In a movie world filled with people who think and subscribe to largely left leaning way of thinking, it is a risk to choose a project like 'Sabarmati Report' . It can come at a personal cost. He is willing to face that cost and the biased media which refuses to act in service of people. More often that not, media reports what they want so see than, what the actual reality is.  

I read somewhere that the ability to change your opinions is a sign of intelligence. Faye talks to him about the benefits of investing in mutual funds. Being a more conservative investor, he says he believes in real estate more. But, when Faye presses on, he is willing to consider the mutual fund asset classes too. 

What stood out for me was that he was not scared to disagree with the interviewer. He doesn't try to belong - or get in to the Bollywood mould of saying all the acceptable, polite, boring things. He speaks his mind, in a way that is polite yet firm. 

Vikrant is unapologetic about wanting success and material things in life. He recognizes how the world functions and he wants to win in that world. He wants to work hard and win in ways that the world respects (like the high end car he bought). Many a time, people lose themselves in a meaningless word salads like 'Money isn't everything in life'. He knows he is an actor and not a social worker. 

For anyone who is trying to cultivate a thinking mind and learning to speak without trying to blend in, yet not pushing people away, this interview is a must watch. I am providing the link below. 

A message to people of India : Blog# 355

 A message to people of India on the Ram Mandir of Ayodhya

People of my country, my family, 

        I write this letter to you in gratitude and with folded hands. You have given life to a long cherished wish of mine. It took much longer than I expected. It tested my will, patience and belief. But, my dream is becoming a reality. 

        To be away from a loved one is difficult for anyone. Be it a for a father, mother, brother, husband, wife, sibling or any one. But, if I could use a moment of indulgence, may I say, it is more difficult for a mother. 

        One would think a civilization like us, the storied Bharath would come back from a setback soon enough, given its rich history and way of being. But, it took a long while indeed for the people to emerge and resurge. 

        There were times when I felt all of you had forgotten about my son. It pained me to think that he is a forgotten hero for many of you. What kept me going was the belief that one day, all of you will remember him - for his generosity, benevolence, righteousness and love. And remember you did. 

        Now, the time has come for you to bring him home. This year, we will begin the year with a Deepavali and end it too with the same festival. If you see the light burning brighter this year, know that it is my heart's joy. 

        Bringing him home is only the beginning. What will fill his heart though, will be all of you taking our great country to the glorious destiny that awaits it. Through your prayers, work and being, I implore all of you to bring glory, fame and respect to our beloved Bharat. 

With abundance of Love, 

Kausalya - Ram's mother and yours too. 

Kantara , the brilliance of Cinema : Blog # 353

Kantara , the movie

What struck me the most about Kantara was its pace. For a movie which talks about the life of people in a village, their beliefs and rituals, it was a very fast paced movie. Not even one scene or frame was unwanted in the movie.

Let us look at the characters first.

Guruva's earnestness touched my heart. His belief was so pure, so unadulterated. His nature

                                              

was child like. When he realizes that the land lord was trying to bribe him, you could see the pain in his eyes. 

I absolutely loved how Leela stood her ground when she had a conflict with her husband and her community. It showed the strength of her character, grit and her need to carve out her own identity.

Murali, the forest officer was an interesting character. He is one of those people who is easy to dislike. However,  towards the end, we realize his heart was at the right place. Could he have done things better? Absolutely yes. However,  that was who he was - a flawed person, much like many of us are. 

Devendra, the landlord fooled me for the first half of the movie. I thought he is a genuinely generous land lord. But then, he lived up to the stereotype of the rich baddie. He got the gullible villagers on his side and then he went around with his devious schemes. 

The lawyer cracked me up every time he came on the screen. All of us have encountered one such character in our lives - either an uncle/aunt, or a friend or an officer. They get angry and they cool down as quickly. No one gets upset with them.

Shiva starts off as a good hearted rowdy. Then, destiny leads him to the glorious path that awaits him. His character is grey too. He is not a perfect person. He does things which are not always right. But, the way Shiva becomes the demi God is stunning. The sincerity with which he transforms is mind numbingly beautiful. 

About scenes that stole the show, Guruva tells the Land lord that he needs to set things right. Later on, he recounts the same to the landlord as the God. That was subtle, yet brilliant.

The scene where Land lord mistakenly feels Shiva understood who Guruva's murderer is. 

One where Leela tells Shiva how disappointed she was that she did not try to see things from her perspective - the hurt in her voice is haunting. 

The scene where Shiva becomes the God and brings everyone together- the villagers,  forest officer and tells them how they need to together protect the land and forest. 

About other elements of brilliance in movie, there is a certain divinity to the music. I am not referring only to the lyrics, but the musical notes and the ragas themselves evoke an unearthly sense of being. 

The colours - the screen explodes with them. Their richness is second only to the strength of the story of the movie. 

I felt there were multiple themes being addressed in the movie - beliefs, culture,  ancient wisdom, humanity, devotion, and the never ending conflict between man and Nature. That, I feel is the success of the movie. Different people are able to look at it in different ways and make the movie their own as how they like it. 

Like a painting that speaks a thousand words to 10 different people and yet, make those 10 people believe that their version is as credible as the 9 others, Kantara does justice to every audience member's wish and hope. 

P.s. I must thank my friend Manie (Manikandan) for pushing me to watch the movie. It is your relentless appeal which made me watch the movie and I am forever grateful,  dear Manie.

Here is a glimpse of the music which will make you feel like you are almost in a trance :) 

Arun.

Thank you Artists, for 2020 : Blog # 351

 

Thank you Artists, for 2020. 

I have heard many wise people asking “What is the use or purpose of artists in this world? Do they add any value? Aren’t they just having fun at work? Can’t they take up something more ‘productive?”.

        I felt 2020 was an answer to all the above questions and much more. Imagine having a sound, healthy body and mind. From the first breath till the last, one utilizes this body and mind for the benefit of oneself and for others. Yet, when bidding final goodbyes, one might wonder if they have lived their life at all, if their soul is filled with a sense of contentment.

For that sense of fulfilment, I feel one needs moments of wonder, admiration and happiness in one’s life making the soul feel that it had a worthwhile journey and that is exactly what an artist does – enrich our souls while we go through the tempestuous voyage of our lives. 

When the pandemic struck and all of us were forced into a lockdown, there was an initial euphoria of being able to spend time with oneself and family. Many of us found time to bring back to life, our forgotten hobbies and passions. Some of us took to fitness like never before and some others, took to food like never again.

However, once a couple of months passed, the reality of having to face one’s life without having any other distraction whatsoever kicked in. We gradually realized the work, office commute, tea breaks, work meetings, office politics were all helping in their own little ways to take out minds off our own magnifying glare down at our lives.

In those moments of despair, came in artists – to calm our nerves and soothe our souls. I know I speak for much of humanity when I pen down the below words to thank artists for being the saviors of humanity.

If we did not have music to listen, to help us uplift ourselves from the abyss of worries and to celebrate the short spikes of exuberance throughout the lockdown, we would have become imprisoned in our own deafening silence.

If we did not have movies to watch and get absorbed into the magical stories and the worlds the brilliant directors and talented actors created, our own world might have crushed our spirits. Although momentarily, we were invested in the worries and lives of those characters we watched which helped us forget our own tribulations.

If the dancers weren’t kind enough to share with the world, the grace and poise that the human body is capable of, we wouldn’t have lost our thoughts to wonder and admiration. Those moments helped us understand the talent and beauty that humanity is capable of creating, once they apply their minds. I must admit, when no one was watching, I might have broken into a step or two with as much grace of that of a Polar bear.

If the stand-up comedians did not observe the world for its fallacies and translated their thoughts into a smile on our face, we would have forgotten how to cheer amidst all the gloom and doom of 2020, the annus horibilis.

If the painters were not kind enough to move their brushes at will and showed us how beautiful this world of colors is, we might have got lost in the grey of gloom.

If the chefs did not cook up the most imaginative of dishes, we might have forgotten to develop a taste to the new normal of the world.

If the writers did not spin a tale using the abundance of their words, we will not have had the comfort of escaping in to the worlds of their protagonists. We would not have been able to learn from the greatness and more importantly, the fallacies of their characters. 

Thank you, Artists, for being who you are and for helping us becoming who we can, in a time of misery and melancholy.

Arun Babu

Class of 2020, Please watch Sunset : Blog # 350

         Class of 2020, Please watch Sunset.

        This one goes out to a community I hold very close to my heart – the graduating class / university students. Maybe it is because I began my career in the University hiring space. Maybe it is because it continues to be a part of my work which I am so passionate about.

My colleagues in HR would agree to this - When you go to a university and interact with a class full of bright, young students, it gets you charged up. That positive energy gets you going for quite a while. I have seen many senior leaders experiencing this.  

Add to this, having the good fortune of being able to handover the very first offer letter of many a student’s long, fulfilling career. These are reasons too, for me to be close to this group of people.

The class of 2020 is in a difficult situation. Covid19 is wreaking havoc around the world. There isn’t even one business sector which is not adversely impacted due to the health concerns around corona virus. This in turn impacts the job prospect of students who are graduating from universities by the summer of 2020. They are worried if the organizations will honor the offer that have been rolled out as part of campus placement process. Those who are yet to be placed are wondering if they will ever find a job.

Now, I am not saying that everything is fine. No, it is not. However, not everything is lost too. From your perspective, it will seem like there is nothing to be hopeful of. It is perfectly normal to feel so. But very many people have been in your shoes many times earlier. There was the dot com bubble, subprime crisis, September 11, multiple corporate scandals, civil and global wars and so on. In all those situations, those you underwent those very difficult situations felt exactly like how you are feeling now. Also, many large organizations have already announced that they will honor all the offers they have made in the campuses. This will make other smaller organizations also to try and follow suit. 

Those who emerged successful from those quagmires did a couple of things right.

They accepted the situation they were in and wrapped their mind and thoughts around that difficulty. They allowed themselves to grieve and thus get over it.

They kept looking for opportunities. Many a time, they did not find the opportunities they wanted. But they took up the ones that came their way and put in the best of their efforts and they kept looking.

They told themselves that if they could handle something like this at the very beginning of their career, nothing could break them in future, and they were right.

Hang in there, make good use of your time. Educate yourself, hone your skills and keep looking.

I urge you to do this. One evening, find out when the sun set is. Be at a place where you can get a good look of the sun. Keep your phone and all other distractions away. Be with the sun as it dissolves into the horizon. See how the mighty star is going down shedding all its glory. Watch carefully how darkness spreads all around.

The next day, when you wake up, look out and see the bright light outside. The mighty star is back. Look up and watch how the sky is lit up in blue serenity. The darkness has disappeared.

Such is Life too. It is a bit muddled now. But it will all clear up, just fine.  

Arun Babu

A Love Letter to Office: Blog # 349

A Love Letter to Office

…in the times of Corona

Dear Office,

It is said that in some relationships, fondness settles in with time. In our case, looks like immense fondness is settling in with distance. I have come to know the abundance of love I have in my heart for you. 

You know that I liked you from the first instance I set my eyes on you, don’t you? I remember the first day of meeting you and hoping desperately that you like me too.

There were times when it was just the two of us. At times, it was early mornings. You used to light up seeing me. At times, it was late evenings. You used to ensure that the air conditioning was just the right amount that I liked. You always offered tea. Even better, you ensured the cafeteria always had just the right amount of light and it had a view.

There is one thing which used to upset me a bit. Inspite of knowing each other so well, you always asked for an ID. But on second thoughts, that is one of the many quirks I like about you. It is always better to be safe than sorry.

Whoever came by, you always reserved a place for me. You guarded all my little Knick knacks and photo frames with your life. I still remember when one of my trophies fell and you guarded it with your carpet. That was so you – always watching out for others.  

It is true that there were times when I chose to stay away from you. Mostly, it was due to travel. Yes, I agree that there were times when I chose to hide behind the cliché of ‘Work From Home’. But you will also agree that every time I came back, I was delighted to be with you.  

I never told you this. But when I went on long vacations, once a couple of days went by, I used to miss you. My friends and family used to make fun of me that I am too into you. What do they know of our relationship, right? You truly lend me identity, purpose and meaning in life.

Of all the people I expected to come in between us, Corona was the last one I thought would do this treachery. What a Brutus Corona turned out to be! Apparently, Corona refers to itself as Covid! Who cares, right?

You stay well, my dear office. Do know that you are more than just a work place to me. You are a dear part of my every day and will continue to be.

It breaks my heart to tell you that I do not know when we will meet again.  But, we will meet soon, against all odds!

Much Love,

Always Yours, 

              Office Goer.

I dedicate this love letter to all those who miss going to their offices. Please share with fellow office goers. 😊

                                                                                                                                   Arun Babu.  

An Ode to Childhood : Blog # 348

An Ode to Childhood

All of us have very fond memories of childhood. It is one place we would like to walk back to and revisit in our lives.

Of the many beautiful songs from Malayalam Cinema, there is one which weaves a magnificent magic around the innocence of childhood – ‘Vennila Chandana Kinnam’ from the movie, Azhakiya Ravanan. Here, I am attempting to present to you, the essence of the song. I am not attempting a literal translation, but the endeavor is to help the non Malayalees enjoy the unparalleled beauty of this song.

I want you to close your eyes, think of your child hood, your friends from those days, the house where you lived, the food you liked, the scents you remember, how young your parents were, the summer vacations and then read the below lines.

Oh look! the shining, lovely moon has fallen in to the serene lake…

Come, let us pick it up with our little, tender hands.

When the birdie sings the melodious harvest song…

Let us build a cozy nest with its yellow feather.

In the lush green meadows where the cattle grazes…

Let us

Enjoy the tender mangoes…

Ring in the anklets of the wind…

And run up the hill of lucky red seeds…

I shall come and cover your eyes

When we play hide and seek,

Allow me a little lie, that I saw you…

Let us

Be the King and Queen of those unseen stories...

Get on the long slow swings during festivities…

Be the peacock that spreads its long beautiful tail…

Hide in those hillocks where the clouds run by…

Swim around like a golden fish…

Board the rhythms of a boat song…

Let us

Play hide and seek…

Bake mud cookies…

Play with the stones in the shades of the huge mango tree…

Go visit the temple…

One where the leaves of the mighty banyan tree meditate…

Hear my friend,  

Tomorrow is the first meal of the lovely baby sparrow…

And then, the tiny squirrel is being fed his first milk…

In a faraway land, the wind seeds are getting married…

And then, the little elephant will take bath ever so playfully…

What really struck me was the fact that most of what this song speaks holds true for almost all of us, which ever part of India we are from. The magic of Childhood remains unchanged.

Oh what a beautiful time Childhood is, isn’t it? How one wishes to hold on to those days for as long as one lives!

You may watch the song here 😊

Joker Movie, A Review : Blog # 347

Joker Movie, A Review

I started watching ‘ Joker ’, the movie with great expectations. Over the next painfully slow, dreary 120 minutes, all I could see was the mis- deeds of a person who needed help with his mental condition. I wonder why people are going gaga about this movie!

            The movie has nothing extra ordinary about it. The protagonist is an aspiring stand up comedian. He makes a living by being a clown. He is unhappy that no one is bothered about his existence and the fact that the world is rude to him. He had a difficult child hood. He has a medical condition where he laughs uncontrollably in situations which are not meant to evoke a laughter.

            One fine day, he encounters some rich brats in the subway train. Enraged, he kills them. He finds joy in those killings. Further, he goes on killing people recklessly till the end of the movie. That’s it. There is nothing more to the movie!

            Now, you might be thinking I haven’t understood the sub texts. Oh, I did. I understand the movie was trying to show how the ‘Haves’ treat the ‘Have- nots’. How the perceived ‘normal’ humans treat the ones who don’t fit in. How insensitive we as a race are, towards people suffering from mental health. The movie was also talking about how a difficult childhood can govern the rest of the life of a person. It also deals with the lies that adults tell the kids and how when the false hood is revealed, it can bring the world crashing down around them. BUT, nothing mentioned here makes the movie remarkable. These are tried and tested narratives. There is nothing exceptional about these story lines!

            I feel many of us are expressing our false admiration for this movie out of sheer peer pressure. Your friends or family might have spoken highly about the movie. Not wanting to come across as not having a refined taste in movies, you also went about giving rave reviews! Is that the reason?

            Has Joaquin Phoenix done an exceptional performance in the movie as the lead actor? Hell yea! Despite the movie being so unremarkable; the actor makes you want to sit through the snooze fest that it is. He epitomizes what human will, dedication and talent could achieve even in uninspiring situations.

Arun Babu.