I am off facebook
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A while back, one of my friends put up a post on Facebook saying he is
leaving fb. Another friend of mine commented on that post saying “A huge loss
for facebook!” In my mind, that comment was the best reply that post could have
got. Many a time, we tend to misread our own importance in the scheme of
existence of the whole Universe.
Before you jump at me saying it is a personal choice, I agree with you on
this aspect. It is indeed personal discretion. But the only person who has
anything to lose is him/her. Whenever a new technology sweeps mankind, there is
a group which step aside from that wave. They attach an almost evil dimension
to it. Would you believe me if I said there were people who said they were
against computers? It worked for them for a small time. In today’s world, if
one doesn’t know to operate a computer, it is as good as saying that person has
stopped living or is frozen in time. Add to that, life could become immensely
easy for them if they had kept an open mind.
Social media exists to connect people and to share information. Of course,
it has its frivolous sides where we use it to boost our self esteem albeit
momentarily and to sustain relationships even if it’s through exchange of fake pleasantries.
But many a time, we do that even in a social gathering too. Does that mean we
stop meeting people or that is all we do in a social gathering? At times, to
get along in a society, one has to hold back a few words and utter a few generous
words even if one doesn’t subscribe to a fellow being’s school of thought completely.
Now there is this angle of addiction to this debate. Whatever we start
doing in Life, it goes through phases. Initially, there is a lot of enthusiasm about
it. Then comes a stage where the enthusiasm slows down gradually and then it
plateaus. Social media is also no different. We learn to deal with these phases
at various points in life. One should learn to rein in ones addictions and exercise
control over ones urges. Stepping out completely from something for fear of
addiction only hinders this learning. It is like saying “I am not taking an electricity
connection for fear of getting a shock!”
There is a concept called ‘Network Externality’ in the study of business.
An application of this concept is that a good or service gets used by almost
everyone that it becomes extremely popular and furthers its own demand. So what happens is when you choose to not use that good or service, you kind of get
left out. In our case, social media essentially facilitates communication. So
it becomes difficult for people around you to know about you and stay in touch
with you if you choose to not use this service. And if you really think those who care about you will make an effort
to reach out to you inspite of your absence in one of the popular channels of
communication of the day, it is like waiting for a telegram. And by the way, telegrams are
dead J.
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