Things to learn from Abhishek Bachchan
I
feel Abhishek Bachchan is one person we all have been unfairly unkind to. He is
made fun of, for no reason at all. Is it his fault that he is the son of a
stupendously successful father? Many of us pale in comparison to what our
parents have achieved in their lives. How will we feel if someone were to draw
such a comparison! It is so unfair to do this constantly.
So
what makes this sudden outburst of support for Abhishek Bachchan? There is a
twitter handle @juniorbaCCHHan which
is the parody account of real Abhishek Bachchan’s twitter handle
(@juniorbachchan). I enjoyed following the parody account for a while. It
really is humorous. But for a moment, I wondered how it would feel if someone
were to make fun of me to this extent? Social media has this strange ability to
dehumanize even the best of us. It makes us say the meanest of things which we wouldn’t
dare say in person.
Now,
why do I feel we are being unreasonably mean to Abhishek? He was born in to
privilege. To say that he belong to the first family of bollywood would be an understatement.
Inspite of that, have you ever read anything scandalous about him? Has he ever made
a misstep whenever he has appeared in the public domain? Has he ever boasted
about his lineage? The answer is No.
In
the instances where he has addressed an audience or press, he has always been
polite. In a couple of instances where he has addressed an informed audience,
he has been able to make an intelligent conversation. In all the interviews
that he has given, he has been polite and never has he come across as brash. There
have been many instances where some of the journalists have tried to instigate
him by comparing his career with that of Amitabh Bachchan’s. Inspite of those
occasions being numerous, never has he lost his cool. I think that is really
commendable.
About
his career in movies, all those who make fun of his films should remember Guru,
Yuva, Bunty aur Bubly, Bluff master, Dostana, Sarkar, Sarkar Raj, Dus and the
likes. Of course, there are flop movies too. But which actor doesn’t?
He
is married to one of the most beautiful women (certified with a title that
holds across the world over J ). She is far more successful than he is
in the field of movies. Inspite of the overwhelming media attention on these qualities
of his spouse and the constant comparison with him, he manages to be level
headed. He is always appreciative of his wife and proud of her achievements. What
more is expected of a spouse?
He
is a doting son, devoted brother, caring father and a great friend to his loved
ones, if one were to go by the interviews. Now, he is garnering great success
in his chosen field of sports management. I think it’s time we cut Mr. Bachchan
some slack.
