Tuesday 6 May 2014

Respect for Women ~ Catch them young

Respect for Women ~ Catch them young


        One of the benchmarks for wellbeing and social maturity of a society should be the way it treats its women. Going by that thought, the lesser said about our society, the better. It is time we brought respect and dignity to our women which they rightfully command.

         A large number of crimes against women that are happening in our society is due to the mindset of the perpetrators; the mindset that women are in some way inferior to men. It is this cancerous a thought that need to be uprooted. For this to be achieved, we need to put in efforts from an early stage.

To begin with, we should look at ways to establish respect for women as a deed that is not a choice but a habit. There can be one person who advocates this thought in every educational institution. Right from when a student clears his/her lower primary schooling (when they reach their 5th Standard) one session which lasts one hour need to be conducted every month for those students.It can be called 'Equality Hour'. In these sessions, the person who anchors this initiative will educate the students about the role women play in our society. This will be done in very subtle yet innovative ways. For instance, showing them films in which women play pivotal roles, inviting women who have contributed to the society in any way to address the students, showing them videos of women achievers, et al. The idea is to get the students understand how women play as equally important a role as men in our country.

Once this pilot program succeeds, the idea can be extended to include taking students to witness women working in positions of power. For instance, the students will visit a Lady who is a district collector or a Police commissioner carrying out her duties efficiently. The intention here is for the boys to begin to accept women as equals and for the girls to envisage themselves in pivotal roles in the society.

The root of all evil is destructive thoughts and these thoughts arise and grow over time. If these thoughts are clipped early on in life, unwanted intentions will be eliminated and so will be the undesired acts. No amount of punishment is deterring people from indulging in heinous crimes against women. What is required is a change in mindset and this initiative is looking at achieving just that.

                                                                                                Arun Babu.

5 comments:

  1. Point blank Arun, Educating the kids is the long term solution. Even I echo the same opinion. You can see more of my views here. http://propelsteps.wordpress.com/2014/05/05/crimes-against-women-in-the-solitude-of-her-joy/

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  2. I do agree with your thoughts.However,the procedure of educating kids in schools sounds clinical.I personally feel that the discrimination starts at one's own home where a girl child helps in household chore and her brother is allowed to study/play!!!!

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    1. very true...it starts at home shows the fact that somewhere we all believe so...that needs to change..

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  3. Very good article.
    Only men who have good sense of self worth can truly respect a woman.

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    1. that is absolutely true Manju...not only men...only people who are secure about themselves can respect others

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